Let bygones be bygones

well... how do i start.. I wasnt feeling so miserable .. but then, i just felt.. need to pen something down about life... as the title above 'let bygones be bygones' ... hmm in this context.. it is loss that i wanna disscuss about.. loss of a person who was very dear to us.. loss of a relationship that was very special .. loss of objects that we really like to use.... etc.. so, what about loss that fear us the most..?

Most people would not think they have the courage to move on.. well i quote a very dear fren of my who said ' there are 5 stages' to reincuperate .. which amongst others are sadness...denial.. angry.. bla bla and lastly acceptance.. and then you could move on...

Well, do you notice that people react differently to a tragedy.. what ever it is.. one must never blame oneself... sometimes we have to learn through the hard way or the softest way (if i may define it that way) to prepare ourself for something great..

Have heard of a phrase 'we are our worst critic'? Well it is true, isnt it... so, imho one must realize that they should forgive themself for what had happened wasnt their fault and that they are venturing into lives... i mean that is what lives are all about isnt it...

Sometimes.. we may let ourself have that precious memory... cos we like to keep it.. and we also must know that letting it go would be the best thing it should be.. for it may give us the chance to appreciate life more .. and live more freely and more peaceful .. letting it go doenst mean that it is neglected or even hatred for that matter.. it means we are more matured and could see life in different light...

As a saying quoted -one will meet its destiny at the path its most avoided- .. well.... everybody has different paths and we may cross other people's paths... well we make frens.. and we lose some.. but it made us wiser isnt it....

well got so much work.. yet feel like pen down something.. there you go! hope dont bore you...

-before i forgot.. anyone.. need the service of a translator,.. please do inform me so... .-

Thanks for your time-

Tergelincir

Oh my... last two days something unfortunate happened to me.. as i walked on the pave to the lift in the basement of my office.. i was slipped.. and bukk.. like a tembikai or even a nangka i fell down.. at that moment i was so surprised that i couldnt move.. then i realized my clothes are wet.. then i realized that the area was covered full with water.. what a day.. lucky me.. my reflex was so good that i think i landed on my hands and back.. fortunately my head doesnt touch the floor.. phew.. lucky me..if not, i would have to gone back cos ive a "big" meeting later that afternoon.

Then, to make it even worse... i forgot to bring my id.. so i need to go to guard's cubicle to retrive it.. but then that day.. was the intake of new guards.. so there were soooooo many people around... i couldnt be bothered and just walked past thru them...

Then, the meeting went smooth... gone back smiling.. until it was bedtime.. i feel aching around my neck and the right side of my body... the next morning was even worse.. feel sooo lethargic and couldnt move my neck.. it hurts!..... then decided to show up late at office...

so.. when i went to my office.. few of my officemates were concerned n later afternoon i went to the clinic.. cos it was really hurts.... then, feeling much better after seeing a doc.. got mc for the next day.. and boy...! did i sleep d whole day... i just realized the muscle realaxant tablet was supposed to be taken 1 tablet during bedtime.. i ate two of the tablet and i really just sleep d whole day... and today.. im glad.. feel refreshed and back to myself again.. hahahaha

Opss... almost forgot. For those who wish to use the service of a translator be it eng - malay or malay-english, i have the right person to do it.. Pls do not hesitate to contact me via mail so that i could put up necessary arrangements. ta... till then...

7 Factual FactS abOut mE...

Well, dear frens, i've been tagged by dakwanie.. the rules are as follows:

The rules:Link to your tagger and post these rules on your blog

Share 7 facts about yourself on your blog, some random, some weird
Tag 7 people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their blogs
Let them know they are tagged by leaving a comment on their blog.

So, here goes:

1. I tend to sleeptalking/mumbling when i am reaaaaaaallllllyyyy tired .. so, don't be surprised if suddenly i talk in my sleep and there's nothing to worry cos i usually will never
remember wht i mumbled about..

2. I love SPONGEBOB SquarePANTS.. i am making it a point to wake up early just not to missed my fave cartoon.

3. I Love UNAGI to death... say what ever u wanna say, .. for me, unagi is one of the best dish in the world .. it has a very unique taste indeed and not sure to what extent the myth that who likes to eat unagi have beautiful skin..

4. Love Colours... for me, life without colours is like living in a morgue.. dull and lifeless ..and it also spark creativity...

5. Adore SARAH.. my youngest sister!!! She 's so cute and i love playing with her...

6. Love swimming .. but always got no time .. why arrrr... feel like all the tension fades away.. and emerging like a new person

7. Like bracelet/necklace/anklet more than ring cos .. i tend misplace my rings...

.............................. actually i can list down many more... but then the title wldnt be 7 factual facts about me anymore.. it'd sounded more like.. 'the neverending factual of ayu the legend' hehehehe

till then, c ya ..
muah! muah!

BLOG 11 - PUASA & RAMADHAN

Things To Ponder:



+ Ada empat tanda-tanda orang yang berakal, iaitu cinta pada ilmu; tidak berubah mukanya

waktu menerima umpat dan puji, bagus jawapannya dan banyak benarnya-Cendiakawan



+ Jika hubungan berakhir di tengah jalan, jangan putus harapan untuk mencuba kali kedua.

mungkin yang kedua jauh lebih baik dari yang pertama-Tajul Muluk



+ Orang yang mempunyai hidung yang besar dan dagu panjang, selalunya dikatankan orang

yang murah rezeki- TM



+ Semakin bertambah bilangan anak dalam keluarga, semakin bertambah rezeki. Setiap anak

itu, telah ditentukan rezekinya oleh Tuhan- TM



+ Keserasian pasangan yang bahagia dapat dilihat melalui raut wajah mereka yang seakan

bercahaya & berseri-TM

BLOG 10 - Proud Booster

Have any of you heard of a proud booster.. lol. Mind u.. Some might think it is some kind of a tonic like an energy drink or something. For many, things or status achieved throughout life can be a very powerful proud booster. It creates a sense of proudness within you when you saw other people's reaction upon seeing those stuffs.

We do feel proud when we wore an outfit or even a pair of shoes that held a designer label or something. But usually, it's just merely feeling good about ourselves by giving ourselves the chances to experience the luxury feeling; nonetheless enjoying the attention others have given us. Through strangers stare, we could even feel like the other party is feeling a bit envy and thus booster our ego.

Things that just cross my mind recently is about 'human proud booster'. And we are talking about actual human being here.. breathing, live, with flesh and blood, just like you and me.. Are we not materially enough that we shifted to human as our proud booster now? Have people ever think the the 'Proud Booster' comes with a name and personalities.. Just like every body else. Well, dear friends, ladies and gentlemen, lay out your comments so we could share for the benefit of the universe.

Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds- enough said..

BLOG 9 - QUOTES FOR LIFE

Dearest friends, I have always fond of good quotes. They're, short, sweet, simple and also precise; and I am SOOO lucky when one of my good friends gave me these quotes which i think could benefited us all.. Not only during hard times but on normal day circumstances too. Here goes:

"Face your past without regret,
Handle your present with confidence,
Prepare for the future without fear"

"Don't believe your doubts and
never doubt your beliefs"

"Life is wonderful if
you know how to live"

Well, to all of my dear FRIENDS... These quotes are for you... Hope you eNJOY it!

BLOG 8 - A Little Piece of Sumthing

Brave yet terrified

Warm yet cold

Kind yet evil

Calm yet persistent

Organized yet scattered

All over yet composed

Helpful yet obtuse

Cunning yet kindhearted

Puny yet large

Respect yet disgraceful

Disgust yet persevere

Rational yet insane

Short yet eternity